You may think I am a bad husband and man, I have no love for myself, but that is how I see the only solution to this problem.
My wife is cheating on me. I know for a fact that she has a lover, there is no doubt about that. We talked and she confirmed it. She said she didn’t love me, didn’t think we were a family, and thought the only way out was to break up because she had a new love.
I listened to her and partially agreed because it was clear we couldn’t be considered a family. But I suggested not to break up and not to make a big deal about it. The thing is, I am very traditional, and I think about my children, I don’t want anyone to tell them that their parents are divorced, or their mother has a lover. So I asked my wife to secretly date her lover but formally keep our relationship.